In case you don’t have seedless dates, de-seed them and keep aside.
Roughly chop the pistachios and keep aside.
Soak the dates and the figs or anjeer in the warm water for 30 minutes
The figs would swell up and both the dry fruits will be soft and mushy.
Grind them in a mixer and grinder until smooth paste. Add very little water as much as possible.
Heat a kadhai, add 1 tblsp of ghee or clarified butter. Add the figs and the date paste.
On low heat, keep stirring this mixture until it tightens up a bit and collects in the centre of the kadhai. Add the remaining 2 tblsp of butter during the process of cooking at regular intervals to avoid burning of the mixture at the bottom.
In 10 odd minutes, you will see the mixture would have thickened, it is time to add the khuskhus, edible rose petals and chopped pista.
Keep stirring the mixture until everything has incorporated well. Switch off the flame and allow it to cool completely.
In the meanwhile, grease a baking paper sheet and keep aside
Once the mixture has cooled down, place it on the baking sheet, apply some ghee on your hands and work the mixture by very slow kneading.
Then shape the mixture into balls, roll them over edible rose petals, pat them once again and keep aside on a plate.
Refrigerate this until you plan to distribute. These ladoos remain fresh for long and are ideal for long distance travel snack too